Let’s get real. The weekly Walmart shootings, the theater shootings, the school shootings, the church shootings, the festival shootings are killing more than just the intended targets. It’s killing and crushing the soul of this once safe nation. Men — white men, angry men, right wing men — are numbingly almost always the culprits. That’s largely due to men’s fear, paranoia, rage, and self-isolation. Oh, that last one. Blow up anything you term a “cave.” American men are repressed, by and large, in ways women are not.